Usizi Nezokuxhumana

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Abaningi benu abangazi mathupha, kodwa empeleni ngakhulela eNewtown, eConnecticut. Yidolobha elincane elimangalisayo elikhule ngokumangalisayo kepha alizange lishintshe kakhulu selokhu ngahlala lapho. Ngesikhathi ngisemncane, kwakudingeka ukuthi siyobuka amabhayisikobho eCity Hall, sivakashele iBlue Colony Diner ngo-ayisikhilimu, bese siya eSt.Rose of Lima Church ngamaSonto. Umphakathi ubuzimela… uBaba wami ubesemnyangweni wezicishamlilo ngesikhathi sihlala lapho. Abantu abakhulu, umphakathi omangalisayo.

Omunye wabangane bethu bomndeni unendodana impilo yayo esindisiwe kule nhlekelele - sonke siyabathandazela kanye nemindeni elahlekelwe kakhulu kulesi sehlakalo esesabekayo.

Uma kwenzeka into enjengalena futhi ifaka udaba oluphikisanayo nolwezepolitiki olufana nezibhamu, kunengozi yangempela ebandakanyekayo ekuxoxeni noma ekwengezeni umbono wakho online. Izimpikiswano zingasheshe ziqhume intukuthelo futhi zizonde lapho othile eveza imibono yabo yezepolitiki njengoba izisulu zalokhu zingakabekwa.

Bengifuna ukukhipha amanye amathiphu engicabanga ukuthi abalulekile kuzo zombili izinkampani nabantu:

  • Silence kungaba yimpendulo efanelekile. Umngani omuhle UChuck Gose waveza ukuthi I-NRA ivale ikhasi labo le-Facebook futhi bayeka ukuvuselela i-akhawunti yabo ye-Twitter. Angikholwa ukuthi kukhona impendulo engcono kunaleso esinikezwe isimo. Izinkampani eziningi kakhulu zicabanga ukuthi kungumsebenzi we-PR ukubeka isitatimende. Angivumi. Kwesinye isikhathi into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukuthula.
  • Ukwabelana nge umbono izokuvula ukuthi uhlasele. Okucacile futhi okulula, ukuzibeka ohlangothini olulodwa lwempikiswano noma okunye kuzovusa impendulo. Uma unombono oqinile ngandlela thile futhi ukumemezela - ungamangali ukuhlaselwa ngokusobala, ukuhlekwa usulu, ukubhujiswa noma ukuba neminye imibono ethandekayo ephonswe emuva. Ukwabelana ngombono wakho kudinga ukuvuthwa. Uma ungakakhuli ngokwanele ukuphatha impendulo, ungazivuleli ukuhlaselwa.
  • Ingxoxo kungakhiqiza. Imithombo yezokuxhumana iyanikeza izindlela zokungavumelani nabantu ngenkathi bobabili benendaba ngomphumela wokugcina. Ngibone izingxoxo ezingakholeki mayelana nokuchitshiyelwa kwesi-2, ukugula ngengqondo, izindaba zobuqhawe, nemiyalezo yothando nokwesekwa ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule.
  • Ilinde elinye iqhinga. Ngenkathi izimpendulo zenhlalo zihamba phambili uma kunempendulo esheshayo, imicimbi ekhokhiswa ngokwezepolitiki efana nalena ingadinga isu elihlukile. Ngiyekile ukuTwitter futhi nganciphisa ukubandakanyeka kwami ​​kwe-Facebook. Ngiphinde ngalinda ukuthumela lokhu izinsuku ezimbalwa ukuze ngibe nokuthile engikushoyo kunokuthi ngivele ngengeze ekuqhumeni kwemibono, izimpikiswano nezimpikiswano lapho. Uma ungalinda kuze kuphole abantu kancane, ingxoxo ingahle yakheke ngokwengeziwe.

Imithombo yezokuxhumana i naphakathi. Awukhulumi ngqo ngqo nomunye umuntu. Kuyindlela yokuxhumana lapho umyalezo wakho ufakwa emphakathini ukuze uhlolisiswe, noma ngabe uwuthumela kuphi. Isangoma sihlinzeka ngenetha lokuphepha kulabo abafisa ukwenza okuhle, nesihlangu sokucasha kulabo abafisa ukwenza okubi.

Lapho ukuqhuma kwekhaya kwenzeka lapha e-Indianapolis, thina wabona konke okuhle okungavuswa ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Inikeze indlela yokusekela, izindaba, ezokholo, imiyalezo yethemba futhi kwaholela ekusizeni kwangempela kulabo abathintekayo.

Nginethemba, yize kunempikiswano ngezepolitiki, ukuthi imithombo yezokuxhumana ekugcineni iyoba yithonya elihle lokuphulukisa lo mphakathi. Sengike ngabuka njengoba abangane bami eNewtown basebenzise uFacebook ukwaba imizwa yabo, ukuphelelwa yithemba, ithemba nenjabulo yokuthi indodana yabo iyaphila. Ngenkathi singeke sizisuse kuma-crazies, ngethemba ukuthi singafunda ukuthi singayisebenzisa kanjani kahle leyo ndlela. Noma funda lapho ungasebenzisi nhlobo.

5 Amazwana

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    Amazwana amahle uDoug! Ngikhumbula ngazi ukuthi ukhulele eConnecticut kodwa awuzange uqaphele ukuthi kwakuyiNewtown. Siyabonga ngokwabelana ngale mibono nabafundi bakho kanye nemiphakathi isiyonke.

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      Ngiyabonga @bnpositive: disqus. Angikaze ngicabange ukuthi noma ngubani uyoke ezwe ngeNewtown, CT. Kuyaxaka ukuyibuka ivuleka ezindabeni nokubona abangani bomndeni wami bekhuluma ngayo njengoba iqhubeka.

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    Enye ingozi yokungena ezingxoxweni zeSocial Media ngezindaba ezibuhlungu zezindaba ukuthi kutholakala njengokuxhashazwa - njengalapho izintatheli zihlohla umbhobho ebusweni bomuntu osanda kulahlekelwa othandekayo. Ukuthula kuvame ukufaneleka ngokwengeziwe.

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    Singasuselwa kakhulu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Okwamahora ambalwa ngalolo suku besicabanga ukuthi ngubhuti. Cabanga nje uma abagibeli ebhasini ayetatazela ngokuthukuthela bebezofunda ama-tweets - futhi uma lo mdubuli esaphila. Kungenzeka kube kubi kakhulu.

    NoRichard Engel. Ngiyabona ukuthi kungani i-NBC imfakele ugesi kwabezindaba waze wadedelwa. Uma kuke kwaputshuka noma ngubani ngokushesha okwaziyo ukuthi bekungenzekani kuye.
    Abantu beSocial Media baqala ukudubula noma yini encane yendaba abayizwayo futhi ama-ejensi wezindaba aqala ukweqa izinyathelo zokuqhubeka nokugcina ijubane lawo, eshintshela kwimidiya esekwe ekuxoleleni sengathi iyinkampani yezentengiso yama-guerrilla ukuze ihlale ihambisana nabaxhasi bayo. Ummango oshelelayo impela.

    Okubaluleke kakhulu - ngijabule abangani bakho nomndeni wakho basindile esondweni leRussia roulette le #Newtown ngoLwesihlanu. Akusenzi isimo sibe sibi kakhulu futhi akusona isipuni sikashukela ukusiza umuthi wehle kepha okungenani wonke umuntu angatshela indaba yakhe futhi ahloniphe labo abangama-27 (kucatshangwa ukuthi bangu-28 sebashona - 1 ogama lakhe angaphinde akhulunywe).

    Futhi ngokwazi, bromance, uzobahlonipha ngesitayela.

    Ngazise ukuthi yini engingayenza ukusiza, ikakhulukazi uma kungaba ngaphezu kwe-Twitter ne-Facebook!

    - umeluleki wakho

    Finn

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