Yeka Ukukhuluma Futhi Ulalele
Imithombo yezokuxhumana iy social. Sonke sikuzwile lokho izikhathi eziyisigidi. Isizathu sokuthi sonke sikuzwe lokhu izikhathi eziyisigidi yingoba kuwukuphela komthetho owodwa ongafakazelwa ngezinkundla zokuxhumana yinoma ngubani.
Inkinga enkulu engiyibona njalo ukuthi abantu bakhuluma nabalandeli babo kunokukhuluma nge kubo.
Muva nje, sithole isikhalazo sekhasimende Twitter mayelana nelinye lamakhasimende ethu. Nakuba isikhalazo besingazange siqondiswe ekhasimendeni, sinqume ukuthi indlela engcono kakhulu kungaba ukuphendula futhi sibonise ukuthi silalela amakhasimende ethu, nokuthi silapha ukuze sisize.
Ikhasimende liphendule ngokuthi ukuvuma kwethu ngaye kwakuyizinxephezelo zesikhalazo sokuqala. Ngakho-ke ukuze sibuyele emuva, ikhasimende libe nesikhalazo futhi lasizwakalisa ku-Twitter. Iklayenti lethu liyaphendula futhi licela ukusiza, futhi ikhasimende libheke lokho okunikezwayo njengokwanele ukugcina ukwethembeka kwalo.
Yilokhu okumayelana nezinkundla zokuxhumana. Kunokuba wenze okuqukethwe okuvele kukhulume nabalandeli bakho, chitha isikhathi ulalele futhi uxoxisana nezingxoxo esezivele zenzeka ku-inthanethi. Lokhu kubuyela ephuzwini lokuqala lokuthi izinkundla zokuxhumana zinomphakathi.
Akekho othanda umfana ongakwazi ukwenza lutho, kodwa akhulume ngaye kanye nalokho akwenzayo. Zinike isikhathi sokulalela, futhi ujoyine izingxoxo ngaphandle kokukhangisa okuthile okwenziwa ibhizinisi lakho.
Njengoba u-Ernest Hemingway ake asho, “Ngithanda ukulalela. Ngifunde lukhulu ngokulalela ngokucophelela. Abantu abaningi abalaleli.”